Finding a life partner who offers love, respect, and unwavering support is a cherished dream for many. 

This guide explores sacred pujas and rituals believed to invite harmony and understanding into marriage. 

Rooted in ancient wisdom and enriched by cultural heritage, each ceremony is described with its spiritual significance, key steps, and the blessings it is said to bestow — helping couples and seekers align their hearts with divine grace.

Best Pujas to Attract a Supportive Wife

1. Swayamvara Parvati Homa

   
   Invoke Goddess Parvati’s radiant grace through a sacred fire ritual. This homa dissolves obstacles to a loving, harmonious union.
   
   Purpose: 
   To request Ma Parvati’s blessing for a devoted, understanding spouse.
   
   Highlights:
   • Offer ghee, rice grains and sacred herbs into the flames
   • Cultivate mutual respect, stability and deep emotional support
     
     
     
2. Gauri Shankar Puja (Complementary)
   
   Honor the divine partnership of Shiva and Parvati to align your relationship energies.
   
   Focus: 
   Harmonize the dynamic Shakti of Parvati with Shiva’s stabilizing force.
   
   Outcome: 
   Remove karmic delays; foster soulful connection and emotional depth

Additional ceremonies to consider: 

• Maa Katyayani Puja — accelerates auspicious marriage timing; remedies kundali doshas

  
  
• Mangal Dosh Nivaran Puja — pacifies Mars-related afflictions
  
  Seek guidance from an experienced astrologer to determine the most auspicious muhurta and the precise number of mantra repetitions.

Best Pujas to Attract a Supportive Husband

1. Mangal Gauri Vratam

   
   

   Worship Mangala Gauri on a Tuesday in Shukla Paksha with yellow flowers, turmeric-rice and jaggery sweets. This vratam brings a loving, respectful partner into your life.
   
   Ideal day: Shukla Paksha Tuesday
   
   Offerings: Yellow blossoms; turmeric-laced rice; jaggery laddoos
   
   Mantra:
   “Om Hreem Glaum Gam Glaum Mahamangalāye Vidmahe
   Padmahastāya Dhīmahi Tanno Mangalāḥ Prachodayāt”
   
   
   

2. Swayamvara Parvati Homa

   
   

   Invoke Parvati through Agni to remove barriers and draw a steadfast soulmate.
   
   Core steps:
   
   
   • Invoke Agni and Parvati with a heartfelt invocation
   • Offer ghee, rice, sandalwood sticks and healing herbs
   • Chant the Swayamvara mantra 108 times
     
     
     

3. Gauri Shankar Puja

   
   

   Celebrate the divine union of Shiva and Parvati to balance masculine and feminine energies in your marital journey.
   
   Focus: Unity of Shakti and Shiva
   
   Outcome: Clear karmic hurdles; attract a partner who honors and uplifts you

Additional ceremonies to consider: 

• If Mangal dosha afflicts your chart, perform a Mangala Dosh Nivaran Puja alongside these rituals
  
  Always consult an astrologer to choose the most auspicious muhurta for maximum impact

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Author Bio 

Rajesh Pathak is a bilingual spiritual writer and ritual documentarian who creates accessible guides for meaningful family worship.  

He specializes in translating sacred ceremonies and crafting practical tips that honour tradition and foster harmony. His expertise in technical writing and cultural studies ensures each ritual is presented with authenticity and clarity.